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Q: My son, 33, is in the process of purchasing a house and he’s going along with his girlfriend’s choice. The house isn’t on a bus route, and I fear he may become very isolated due to his diabetes and the related seizures he has had since age 15. He’s unable to drive. While living with me, I’ve driven him to and from work.
She doesn’t want anything to do with me though I’ve not done anything to her. I’ve invited her to dinner but she’s always too busy. What can I do?
A: Join her. Don’t fight her or she’ll isolate him from you, too. She’s clearly a controller, and for now this may even make him feel safe with her. You want to stay connected, because one day he may wake up and want to get out from under her thumb.
Offer to go with her to look for houses with similar niceties that are accessible to transportation. Stress that the final choice has to be theirs.
Q: I’m a mid-20s bisexual man in the “confused” stages of my sexuality. I’ve been seeing a much older man, in his mid-40s. He used to commute to my city every week. We’d hook up once every few months since we worked for the same company.
Recently, he’s moved here. I have feelings for him but know that he’s seeing someone else who’s older than me.
It hurts me to hear that his friend has stayed the night, or they’re going on a date.
I’ve even had thoughts of vandalism, since I have no one to vent to. I’m still closet-locked, and I don’t want to ruin our friendship.
A: Forget vandalism or any other vengeful thoughts. They could ruin your life.
The writer apparently wants her mom‘s wedding ring to give to her daughter who is getting married soon. If the ring isn’t passed on to her when she asks, she could ask to have the ring appraised by a jeweller and buy it from her brother-in-law at market value or at a negotiated price.
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